The Power of Wise Counsel

“It is better to heed the rebuke of a wise person than to listen to the song of fools.”

Ecclesiastes 7:5

In the fast-paced world of the workplace and life in general, navigating challenges and making sound decisions can often feel overwhelming. One crucial factor in ensuring success and personal growth is the company we keep and the advice we heed. Ecclesiastes 7:5 offers timeless wisdom on this matter, emphasizing the value of wise counsel over the distracting noise of foolish flattery.

When deciding who you will allow to influence your journey, it's essential to evaluate their journey, behavior, reputation, and motives. Wise counsel should come from individuals who not only have extensive experience and knowledge but also possess the integrity to provide honest, constructive feedback. Such individuals are invaluable because they are willing to call you out—not in a demeaning way, but in a manner that fosters growth and improvement. They offer feedback that helps you become a better person, both at work and in your personal life.

We all make mistakes, have areas that need improvement, and have blind spots that can hinder our progress. Having someone in your circle who has navigated similar challenges and is rooting for your success can make a significant difference. These mentors or advisors are not just cheerleaders; they are also accountability partners who provide the tough love necessary for real growth. They help you see your shortcomings and encourage you to address them constructively.

Who is in your corner? If you haven't already started building this network, it's never too late. Seek out those individuals who exemplify wisdom, integrity, and a genuine desire to see you thrive. And most importantly, pray and seek wisdom from God about all who you desire to be a part of your tribe.

Side note: Your tribe can change over time as your and people’s seasons change. Know when to release people.